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会念可兰经的宝宝?

忘了什么时候开始,小宝贝会在听见穆斯林念经的播音后,跟着一起念经。

啊。。。啊。。阿。。啊。。。。。。。

爹地一开始并不相信,可是一次又一次由妈咪的提醒和观察后,爹地终于认同了。

刚刚晚餐时间,小宝贝又开始念经了。爹地爱女心切地冲口而出:“李宁,如果以后你是回教徒,爹地妈咪就会hoot 你!”

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p/s 爹地,你不是说要让小宝贝自由发挥,自己决定她的人生吗?这么会那么执著于这个事情?
忘了告诉你,我以前也想过要改信回教。。。

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小宝贝长脚纹了

前几天,爹地突然说“小宝贝有脚纹了!”妈咪那时候随口说 “因为她都在爬了嘛,所以就有咯。”

刚刚妈咪帮小宝贝按摩的时候,也看见了小宝贝的脚板上段,靠近脚指头的脚板,有了几条脚纹。妈咪在想,是不是因为爬行让小宝贝开始长脚纹, 然后又因为有了脚纹, 小宝贝又能够用脚尖站起来了呢?

6 个月前的小宝贝,可是一点脚纹都没有,光滑得很。妈咪还担心,没有脚纹怎么站,怎么走路啊?

慢慢地,妈咪也忘了这件事。

现在,看着小宝贝的脚纹,心里觉得很奇妙。小宝贝一天比一天地大了,好像静悄悄地,而同时间,又很快速。啊,这是小宝贝给妈咪一个很棒的教学!  ^^

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Xiao Bao Bei’s Weaning Progress @ Week 24-25

This is extracted from a letter to aunt Zhi Yi.  ^^
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Xiao Bao Bei is having 2 times of porridge since last week. So now my schedule needs to include the porridge preparation & cooking, then feeding her.
It was a mess on the 1st day. I let her sit up and she sputtered on my face!!
And first time ever, I raised up my voice 2x “What are you doing?!!”
She paused for 2 seconds, then sputtered again!!
Well, I think I still haven’t break my record in yelling at her and scold her. Just the tone is higher 2x. It is also funny that I speak English with her when I am mad?  =P
I called up my mum and she suggested me to lie her down when feeding time. (I was doing that for the past 2 months when feed her some vege puree.)
The situation got better and better. Now, she could finish 1 small bowl of porridge within 10-15 mins.
I am happy about it because I could see the improvement from day to day.
At first, she will turn over and crawl away even though I am still feeding her. Also, I have to remove her spoon from her mouth (this one is for her to grab in order to distract her from fighting to get my spoon) and feed.
Then, she will only turn over and crawl away when I go to get another few tablespoons of porridge.
Now, she will wait for me while I go get the porridge while she lying there playing with the spoon & plate. Also, she will remove her spoon and open her mouth when I say “mum mum”.
Ahh…. within 1 week time, everything turns out to be so well! Thanks to my gal for her cooperation.  Of course, the feeding timing, position, mood etc are the keys too.
The next challenge will be, when to let her sit up and eat. =)
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感恩老天爷,让我可以陪伴着孩子成长。

孩子,你成长得太快了。。。
短短5天之内,你从不会自行坐起来;
然后自己坐起,身体倾前;
再自己坐起,身体摇摆不定,不会从坐姿换去爬行, 只能大声求救;
最后自己坐起,身体挺直, 随时可以换姿势,坐着吃红罗卜,玩手握玩具。
这一切看在妈咪眼里,是多么地欢欣雀跃。
谢谢爹地,支持妈咪的决定。感恩老天爷,让我可以陪伴着孩子成长。

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最简单的信任,却是许多人都做不到的

狗狗一直都有提起,我们是被身边朋友羡慕的一对夫妻。

嗯,没错,总有朋友会说, “像你们那样,是最好的.” “瞧,你们还是那么的恩爱.”

淑仪对我说过,“你虽然不是大富大贵,但是你是个幸福的女人。”

原因呢, 也没有人问起.

狗狗和我都一致认为, 那是因为我们互相信任, 坦诚相对.

套一句狗狗的话, “我们做到的, 明明就是一个最简单的信任, 可是往往许多人都做不到.”

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李爸爸感触良多的一天

2011年6月6日 上午

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李爸爸:你有没有觉得她好像一下子长大了许多?

李妈妈:你有这种感觉?

李爸爸:嗯,我不想错过太多她的成长过程。。。。

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李妈妈经过小宝贝和李爸爸身旁,听见小宝贝正在叫爸爸,爸爸, 爸爸。。。。

李妈妈:好啦,你就一直在叫爸爸。已经叫爸爸上百次了。只是叫了妈妈几次而已。

李爸爸:你不是不承认她是在叫爸爸吗?

李妈妈:因为当她叫妈妈时,发音是准确的。 你的只是“巴,巴,巴”的叫。一点都不准确。

李爸爸:你的是quality, 我的是 quantity.

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李爸爸:我知道为什么我们不会觉得她不乖,爱哭,爱闹了。因为我们亲自照顾她,我们知道她可以自己唱歌给自己听,然后自己睡觉。她会自己坐起来, 等等。

如果是给保姆照顾的话,每一次我们拜六接她回家的时候,她就会好像现在去外婆家那样,会哭闹。

李妈妈:这个我一早就懂了。你今天为什么会有这么多感触啊?

李爸爸只是无奈地笑?苦笑?心疼地笑?

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老公,你已经腾出很多你的时间陪伴她了。所以,小宝贝认得你,喜欢你啊!

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Got Life or No Life?

~ Quote of the day by Clance Lee~
Mrs Lee: Mrs Chan does not need to do any housework such as hanging clothes, sweeping and mopping the floor. And she said she got no life. What about me?

Mr Lee: Hanging clothes, sweeping and mopping the floor are life. She doesn’t do it hence she got no life. You are doing it, that’s why you got life.